Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Teen Dating DUE Wed., Nov. 12, 2008

Let's discuss your views and opinions on teenage dating. There are many different opinions about how old must a teen be before she/he starts dating, etc. Let's discuss these issues in this blog. Answer the following questions or even create your own! Respond to others, also.

How old should a teenager be before she/he starts dating? Why? Is it a good idea to start young? How does dating help prepare you for your future relationships? When you are dating someone, or are interested in someone, what characteristics are the most important to you (looks - pretty or handsome or personality)? Rejection - how do you handle rejection (if you ask someone out and that person says no, how do you feel?)? Discuss other issues.

A website with interesting issues about teen dating that you can check if you are interested:
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Teen-Dating-Issues-849/indexExp_47609.htm

33 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hello,
My opinions, I was young for dating with boys when I was eight or nine. I felt to different with dating boys. I like to dating with boys, but I want to date who good man. I hate to see who boys have cheat or bad trouble. I want to good love, and like to date with boys.
You know that, I have learn a lot from relationship. Last years ago, I always get to date for fast time with boyfriend. Now, I have to take time with boyfriend, but if I still single then I will take time with boys. I will won't date with boys. I rather graduation then I will get boyfriend, but I will take to look for dating. If I have problem with boyfriend then we can take a time or talk a solve problem. if boyfriend have bad reason or cheat then I will over with him, but I can give him for one chance for good reason. If he still cheat or bad reason then I will over with him. I don't like to problem about dating. I like to love or flirt each other for dating.
Honest, I like to teenage dating.

Curly said...

My opinion is teenagers start dating about 18 or 17 years old or after gradution. Because 14 to 17 teenagers are immature. But depend on teenagers are mature then can date like 16 or 15 years old not as 14 years old. Because most 14 years old teenagers didn't usally to date. Obv, they didn't ready for date and they thought date must to be with boyfriend/girlfriend everyday also they didn't focus education. The personality is important for date than prett or handsome because someone dates her/him if he/she look so cute then problem. They will find out their personality isn't good then break-up.

If person rejection me then i will feet hurt but i will talk with him for take time. It lets him to start feeling me or not. Then we can became best friend than obesseive about him. It's not good to obesseive about him. If he didn't want me then i will forget him but keep talk. Boys are still there in the world. I'm not worry about him.

NPTy31 said...

Well, my opinion is that dating at young age would be a great idea. It prepares a person for future experince of dating. So you will not feel like an idiot. Dating helps us to prepare for the future by picking out who you really want to spend your life with. When i date someone I usually find intrest into girls who are Funny, risky,adventerous,beautiful,Also Knows how to ride quads,tough, and very nice, understanding and are smart. Rejection is very hard for me to handle. If i get rejected i act just as normal. I usually accept what the girls say. And, I dont argue with them.

Miss Katee said...

Hello,
My opinion that is should teenage date age is 16 to 18 years old. I know that teenage age is 13 to 15 tend look for handsome, sexy, hot, taller, mucsle, 6 to 12 packs abs, and etc always quickly date. Young teeage not should to date because they so young and immature and not mature enough and not serious relationship like as puppy love. I notice that who pre-teenage and teenage date make ruin their relationship and problem relationship. Some teenage think that the love relationship make sex cause fell in love, puppy love, and french kiss make take too advanced thing from adult love relationship; think it's cool. I notice that some teenage people who has relationship require too sexy clothes for boyfriend for attention to them, look at us, I have hot boyfirend blah. They some tend to hush date. Teenage relationship has a lot of drama.

I had experience of relationship for date when I was pre-teenage and teenage. So I want to share my experience for relationship. When I joined in Scranton School for the deaf on May 2002. When I was 11 years old. I though that I never have any boyfriends. Somehow one boy liked me and I was shy of him. He try to be nice with me in first place and become I liked him. I not remember that I asked him for going out OR he asked me for out going. He and I were date together for 6 months;almost 7 months. That we were not serious relationship, just basic relationship like hug, kiss, and together in anywhere at school. When I broke up with him became single. we were young and not know what is serious relationship. One year later he back with me again, but we were together for short week like 1 week. He was date with me by 3 times. Last time I date with him by 2 years ago when we were middle school 8th grade. He and I toegther by 1 month 3 days; he dumped me. Now we are friend like as brother. We called Irish brother/sister. Before we were date called "Irish couple." He was my first boyfriend since I was new student at SSSD. He was my first kiss and hug. Last time he dumped me by 2 years ago because he was liked to other girl. That he made me feel hurt. I feel like that is watse my love. So I relaize what are for relationship? That's why I am single.

I date several boys from SSSD.I have some terrible experience relationship. So I won't happen this again. I am seriously; no joke.

SO I am happy that I been single for 2 years, will be 3 years. I like to single because less drama relationship and free drama. That is great! I take my time until college or after college then look to guy for serious relationship. I never have serious relationship. I am seriously; no joke. I has learn a lot of relationship and need to single because I am young. I have plenty social with my friends not have to hush date. Take my time. If I find right person match my personal. I hope that person have loyal, nice, care, cherish, respect, understand, effort, serious love, gift things to me, laugh, smile, good great, handsome, know how to style clothes right way, help, love to children, leader, creative, never pushy, never force sex, always patient, have good job, capenter fix house, know how to fix everything like car & house & everything, good influence, good justice, discuss problem solve, never fight talk, never cheat, never lie begin honest, and postive things that what I want to.

If I have problem relationship then sit down and discuss problem solve our expresstion feeling, then wont happen. It would make better relationship. That is simple.

Zenman said...

Because teens wants a date than stay single. I don’t have a girlfriend since about two month. Sometimes girls dump me. I dated 8 times. But now I prefer stay single. Because I always want a date but now I don’t.



YAY that is my idea!

husky said...

Im not teen, anymore! I start is soon adult! My opinion is teen people need careful with date because relationships, sexual, behieve, and more things that can be danger. Often I heard many teen start sexual on 14 age to 16 age in my old school and anywhere. I not know why teen people did that, but they just teen that not start adult. I not understand why teen people want sexual, now! But, they need learn to someone with new exprence unit trust, marry, and etc. I alway date many girls because I want know new exprence and make more "socal." I was 5 year old, date with my best-friend. My mom told me, she say cute because I was young. My best-friend broke up with me because (I can't tell to you). I was start 13 year old. I was start popluar with girls in my old middle school because girls like to me cause I did nice, funny, and teach new sign to them. Many girls like to me. Also, they want date to me. But, I date to my ex-girlfriend because she was very hot than all girls in middle school. I was make wrong because she not great with me, and cheat with me. I was broke up to her. I was 16 year old. I went to my old school (Ithaca High School). I was very popluar because I love chat to only high girls. Also, I made to MORE crazy that girls like me! I was very popluar than you think. My life, I was date to girls that more than 35 because I want know new learning and new experence! Finally, I decide I want find trust girl and successful in future! I want find girl who nice personilty and very hot! I want date new girl who nice personilty and very hot because I want happy and love in future. I not want date girl who bad personilty and freak. I want get marry to my girl!

DJ said...

I disagree. I think 13, 14, or 15 age should start to dating. Because that is when puberty hits. Puberty cause change for teenagers. When 13, 14, or 15 start to dating, they are learning about relationship. When they broke up, they think "What i do wrong this time?". Then they found out answer and move on. They have to learn a lesson, not just same and same mistake. When they becoming 17 or 18 old years, they will be prepared for serious relationship. Of course, you know I dated over 15 girls. I alway be stupid. However, I'm still learning.

Off the point, If I like this girl, girls shouldn't tell her about my bad past. I learned my lesson. If I like this girl, then I should be honest with her about everything. I don't like it when girls tell this girl about my past or fake past. To you, girls group who keep telling this girl, you absolutery have no RESPECT for me!


P.S. if you want to know what puberty means, then don't ask Donna. She not in position for that. Please ask your counselor.

Anonymous said...

When I was 14 or 15 years old. That first time date with heard girl. Because she want to date with me thewn i said oh yes sure. I didnt know how to ddate with her and no reason myslef. So i just think how to plan relationship with her. Later few month, she broke with me and i didnt nothing with her and not problem with her too. I find out then she told me that cheat or used on me. I was shocked and didnt know that. i told her why you do used on me for? she had some reason it about deaf people. she said you not know how to love and not good conversion that hard life that why. I just apecct it and i not should mad at her. So i never date with heard girl again. Because i not good experience with heard girls. When I moved in North Carolina, I went to Nc deaf of school and i just curiuos look the deaf girls. Because i want to more experience with deaf person. The deaf girl like me a lots then i didnt know that then i did process with her just time taken. Few week, it is real work date with her. I just very surprise and first time with her deaf person. i feel good exprience with deaf girl. Later few month, she problem with me and i didnt nothing again with her. I try figure wit her then i find out that problem personality. I should before just look for personaliy match with me. But it's too late. So I was bear with her for 6 month that why. Next time, I will figure myself and deaf perosn's pesonality.

I'm agree with carly. Many young people always like 14 between 17 age for date. they have big number one problem of course. I wish young people nothing problem with world but it is impossbile and still problem. No one perfect in the world. I hope young people should learn how to love right way as parents but sometime problem same parents. So I hope if i get new girl with me in good future for love =)

Anonymous said...

My opinion is 15 to 17 years old start teen date... But I notice most young want too fast for date. That’s enjoyed I example kiss, fun, and hug. The young kids not know how love is..

I want tell you about my ex-boyfriends.


Yes, I not real boyfriend but we like each other in Florida. Well, we were young when we like kiss, hug, and together in anywhere. That's my first time for kiss with him. You know that, we had never problem. He is my close best friend and he understands I feel and if he look when i was sad then he give me a big hug. I feel a like learn from how love is. But I not learn deep about love is and relationship.

I left PA from Florida. I was single when i was 12 year old.. I don’t care about boy. When I join Scranton State School for the Deaf on Feb, 2005.

I was like one boy in Middle School. i thinks he was cute boy but i like his personality that all. Few months later I like other boy in Elementary. I ask him for date then he said ok sure. We were date but we not good relationships but not long. I not like his personality so, I broke up with him.

About Oct 2005 I was going to maze with my friends and i was like boy. I feel like he looks at me in bus I not want look at him. He want me with him go to maze then i said sure. I start heart beat so fast! I ask him for date in maze. I know i was stupid because was too fast for ask out with him.. He said, "Fine" to me. He ask me give me a kiss then i did kiss him.. We were together like 2 or 3 week. He dumps me because he likes other girl. i was upset.. Few hour later he want me again then i said yes.. i was happy. He dump me again i said whatever fine.. On June 2006 we dating again, then we decide broke up same time because we not see each other summer 2006. We favor be good friend but often like each other sometime. He and I always have problem by 2007-2008. Now the boy and I favor be friends that all.

On Nov 2006 the boy wont date with me until he appect it.. I really like him and want date with him. Nov 14, 2006 Picture day of school. I ask him for out but I scared tell him. So, I did tell him and he start smile at me. I feel like he is my new boyfriend! I was shock because I been wants date with him. Finally we was together by 5 months and almost 6 months. He dump me because we have big problem all time.. I feeling hurt lots from him. Now, I forget about him we just good friend but not real..

But I am happy now because I am still single for 1 year 8 months. I can’t wait 2 years by single my reason is I not like have problem with boys. I rather I want take my time.. I always fun with my friends than date. I honest I not interest have a date.

Anonymous said...

I really like who have a good personality and relationships becuase sweet heart and give me what i want and respect me.. If i ask someone out and he said no to me. I will appect it and respect him.. I will look for right guy. But, I favor i want wait until i go to collage in my future. I want know his well first. If i not know him i will date with him i will mess up my own date. I not want get my hurt. I been mistake with my ex boyfriends.

I agree with Curly...

Anonymous said...

Hey everyone,
Let me tell the truth, I was dating girls when I was 8 years old, the reason why they dating me, because they think i have a cute looking, and good personality. Some of girl think I am not good at relationships, but until future they saw my personality is still good, and some of girls feel shouldn't to broke up with me. Sorry about my off the point -_-'.
My opinion is that dating start is age by 15 to older, reason why I said that, because I notice some of them are dating and they get along together. Now compare my age before = 8, After = ??. Sorry I hope y'all know my age. Lol. Anyway, see my age that I dating with my girlfriend when she was first teenager, and we love each together. You-know-who and I are still dating so far, and we are pretty good couples.
That my sugget, become first teenager should be start dating to future.

P.S. I sugget some of you people, who you should study person actually have good "PERSONALITY", because personality is most important for all. DO NOT THINK about Beautiful, Hot, or Handsome. THINK ABOUT PERSONALITY, that my sugget. If I see you do this about beautiful, hot, handsome. Do not make me (smack your face). LOL.

Why So S3RIOUS?

Letii Leee! said...

HIII EVERYONE! _\m/!


Oh well, I am actually agree with curly. Boys and girls should dating between 16 to 17. Do you know why? Because boys and girls will learing about dating level, and looking for right man or woman for them.. They will have opportunity to learning about their experience. They will do better in relationship for sure.

Sorry I disagree with ROMEO! Do you know why? Because it's between 13 to 15, they always problem and didnt understand what they do wrong in relationship or do dumb dating or there will make mistake like stupid dating.

Suggest that, important to teenagers must looking for personality, Trustful, Honestly, right man or woman! _\m/


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Anonymous said...

Romeo, HOW RUDE ARE YOU? You can't force that girl to stop talk past life when they had experience with you. I understand that you hate girls to talk about past life with you but still if they want to tell to conuselor and depend on their comfort.
Anyway, I think that teen can start to dating possible is by 13-18 because they can have freedom to date whatever they want to but not dirty romantic as Romeo & Juliet, just kidding. I think that is good idea that 13 - 18 teens can date because they are single when they is kid and they wait so long to be teen so bad. Well, I think about young start to date? Hm.., hard to tell you about it because I not want to hurt young kid's feeling. I think that young not suppose to date because they can attract on girl and ask that girl to date and ingore education. I think that is so great for young kids have a opporunity to date and have experience with that then will have a feeling when they become teenager then realize when they was young kids.
When I joined SSSD on October 2002, I was attracted with one girl, she was as my age 10 but I was older than her, she had fabulous personlity. I not remembered when that girl that who I attracted, she asked me to date. I was happy that I date with her. She was my first girlfriend in my life. She and I was date by one day then broke- up. When she and I kissed then she ran to bathroom to washed her face by my kiss. I was failed date with her. Well! Another girl, when I went to swiiming, I asked one girl that who had same as me W.S., one girl said fine, we sat together in bus. When we arrived to swimming, we had fun but me not because she was my girlfriend but she decided to other boy. I can't mention. Sorry!That made me angry because she attracted to other boy than me. Third girl, when she was new girl when I was in Middle School, she was visitor with her family, I was attracted her so fast. Last year, When I ate in cafe', girl asked me to date. I said yes quickly because I liked her in my heart forever. She and me walked me with other students and when all students were gone then we were kissed. It was my first time that I kissed girl. Oh, My God! I was kissed her as duck because I was nervous to kissed her. My heart was beated all day because she loves me so much then in lunch time, she wanted to talked me in private, my hearts was beated because I thought that she planned to kissed me again.But she dumped me. My heart was hurt so bad because I was hearted her so bad then I cried so lot.
I think that personlity is top important to me. I have experience with rejection many time. I hate that. One time, I want to back with girl that who I heart her forever. She rejection mr and she refers to be friend that all. I feel hurt because I want her so bad. I try to convince her to date with me but I can't do that because I not want to be ransom. I hate other boy to take her so easy. I can't mention. That causes me jealously because that cause me to think negative about myself. But I definetely to take girlfriend in college. Period.

Anonymous said...

Hello,

Well my opinion is teenagers start dating about 13 years old.

Let me tell you about me for truth.

When I was entered hearing school, I never dating with boys in my life. Because my mom was told me that she don't let me dating with boys. So I was single for 13 years, I suppose become 14 years. Because one boy really liked me and I really liked him too. on October 31, 2007 for halloween party, I was shy to talked with him and he was shy to talked with me too. Later on November 1, 2007 I was at home and I talked with girl on aim, then boy want talk with me on aim. I was gave girl my screen name to her, she gave to boy my screen name. And he was called me on videophone, I started was very shy, we were questions each other. I really love his peronally, it's perfect for me. on November 3, 2007 he asked me to dating now, I said sure. He was very happy, I was very happy too. Later on December 2007, I told my mom for truth, she said "That fine, I liked him in his personally, he is perfect for you because I noticed he always make you laugh on videophone, I am very happy." Now we are still together, we are good couple, but sometimes weird, Lol. I am very happy that he is my first boyfriend. Also my mom told me that she want me still together with my boyfriend, so we did still together.

That why, I choose 13 years old for start dating, because first teenager, so. Same as me, I was first teenager dated with my boyfriend.

If my boyfriend and I have problems, I asked him a question "What if we have problems what you going do?" he favor solve problems, I was agreed with him, because we don't want still mad each other, so that why. Now I let him take time with me, if he need.

but I noticed girl who has boyfriend, boy has crushed on girl. I feel not right to crush on girl, because girl will have hard time to decide. then girl decided rather together with his boyfriend, it was good.

Be strong heart, I sugget good peronally for a good boy and girl.

I disageed with some students saying 16- older. Know why? Because some first teenager who never dating or was taken but broke up, sometimes they have hard time for being single, they hate being single make their life bored, when they saw some older people were kissing, hold hands, blah. They were jealous, but understand they will have looking for which GOOD personally.

Ok fine, some girls first teenger have first boyfriend, some girls have to first thinking in their brain to make what next? if they have problems then they will have solve problems, than broke up fast. Sometimes problem then broke up is not IMPORTANT. They have to solve problems FIRST, if they solve problems then what they want their decide to broke up or rather still together. Look at First teenagers! They can't be patient for being single, hello? I was patient being single, now finally I have my first boyfriend, I feel better.

Eagles#81 said...

I think it good thing to discuss about teen dating. Ok, I like to sharing with you about my life of teen dating. When I was becoming teen at first time, I wasn't having a girlfriend at all. When I was about 16 or 15 years old, I joined SSSD at first of year. I know nothing about dating. So I was dating with girl at first time. Guess what, I wasn't serious I though Dating is about fun and other stuff are not right. I was very wrong really wrong then I learn a lesson but I wasn't really do that yet until I was 19 years old to learn a lesson at all. I was last time to date with one girl with same my age at SSSD. I think love is just fun like other stuff (I dont want talking about my private of life!"). So she dump me first time then back with me for stupid reason. Then I was finally learn a lesson and dump her at first time.If someone rejection me, I will be sad but before get bad temper sorry I dont meaning it. I think I was very wrong for force and use on one girl in my life.NOW I AM FOCUS AT WOMEN'S MIND AND PERSONILATY AND COMPARING THEIR LIFE! Before when someone say no to me I was force and concerced her. IT wrong for me to do that. Now someone say no then I accepting it. And it alway plenty women in the world. Must be as patient! P.S. NOT CHEATING! OR USING ON SOMEONE! PERIODS! I love you as family!

Anonymous said...

haha.. I don't know why I laugh. I am not lie to you. I don't know how to date. I alway shy and hard to talk. You know what I mean. Oh man, I alway ask curly help for me how to date. lol. I think date make you feel good and more fun. I guess. I really don't know. I alway think why and how did all people get date.

Date is good? I don't know. haha I really don't know. there one thing don't play and game date that really goofy. You know that. Be serious and mature. Don't worry you have enough time in your future. Never know you will find someone love!!!! might not...

RookieGirl 3 said...

i agreed with npty31, twisterbasketball, and KJ.

I think better young girls or boys should date like basic love. They can learn how to work relationship for future. They can change to better for future.
If 16-up, they not know how to work relationship then they will has mess up for future.

Some boys choose girlfriend because girls are hot. Boys and girls always look for appearance. People, some of them look for personality. Personality is an important because easy to match. If appearance, will mess up, and it is not worth.

Honest, I have bad relationship when I was younger.

I was dated with one boy when I was 6 and he was 8 years. We are together for about three years then i broke up with him because he stare other girl and not me. I was mad. Till I was 13 years old, I learn a lot and still. I was realize that boy stare other girl, what it for? Just let boy have fun with girl but not flirt, just play and I let him. Now I learn a lot, still, and forever.

Now I have boyfriend and we are fine because I learn how to work with relationship.

If we have a problem, if he want to alone for take time. I will let him to calm down till he ready to talk me. We can talk or discuss to solve problem.

If boy say no to me, I will accept it because boys are pently at world for me. I am still 15 years old and not yet 20 or up years old, but I have boyfriend, ha.

Rookie 3

Anonymous said...

Kids, Kids, dont turn this into drama, made this open mind, it is nothing wrong when everyone express their thoughts, opinion, experience, oka?

Anyway, Hello everyone, as most of you know that I didnt date everyone for long time, ha. But, I have been study on everyone's relationship style, I also study how did they can handle with their boyfriend/girlfriend. It is very interest.

Well, about age, I think any age can be date. It does not matter to me, it is depend on their parents' decision. It is not always to must be teenager so that you can date someone. I disagree. Some young kids did date with other kids. It is fine, but it is depend on their parents' decision. If their parents say no date allow till they turn to 13 or whatever. Then follow parents' rule.

And, you are asking me if it is good idea to date at young. Well, I think it is cute to see young date with other young kid. They have feel love for each other, that is good. Develop their trust to each other. It IS not bad to do that.

How does dating help for my future. Well, I think dating dont apply to future, really. I dont see any important about relationship for their/my future. BUT, without relationship, nobody will survive. =^P Everyone needs relationship. Some them dont, it is fine. But, most of them, they need to dating someone, of course. They do work for education, their future, etc. But, they need have a feel of ->LOVE<-. Everyone needs that. So, technically, everyone could dating someone although if it dont apply to your future. There are no law about dating except apart of ages.

Characteristics that are the most important to me, is: Girl, of course. I look for both, good personality and good looks. That is most common, so... That is all I have say about characteristics, it is not really much to tell, really.

Rejection, if I ask someone for out, and they say no. It hurts, of course. But, I have to move on, right? Worthless to stay and begging them for out with me. But, it does not mean, when that person say no, and I give up quickly. No, you can accept and move on. Then keep be friend with that person. Friend is better than nothing, right? So, dont lose a friend over begging for out.

Now, speak of my life, I think relationship is fun, happy. BUT, it can be sad, angry. It is normal for relationship. Impossible to have PERFECT relationship. I would like to have relationship, yes. Why not? It is fun to have a experience and share the feel. (Define of fun, I dont mean like advantages, get it?) I am available, so. =^P

Teacher, you are turning this into dating online. Haha.

Allright, I will respond to everyone later, after everyone leave comments. Good Night. =^) See you tomorrow.

-AJR

RookieGirl 3 said...

I agree with AJR.
NOBODY are pefect.

r00ki3

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Anonymous said...

Champpurple – Exactly, communication is important. Once you have good communication, your relationship will be great. Know me mean? =^)
Curly – I disagree with you about age, sorry. =^P Well, you have good point, BUT, after they dating and turn into immature, whatever. They will learn, and in next time, they will date in better way. Hm?
Npty31 – Agreed and I have nothing to say. =^D
Miss katee – 12 packs?!! LOL! Young boys don’t have those 12 packs! =^P Funny, but I agreed with your comments. Well, you are saying that pre-teenage and teenage tends to have sex, puppy love and French kiss to make to fell in love each other. I don’t think so, some of kids have good parents discipline. Then they will not doing like this. So, technically, not everyone tends to like this like you say. *By the way, don’t mean to be bragging, but I have been single for 3 years! LOL, just kidding. Don’t get it in personal please.
Zenman – Nothing to say.
Husky – Well, you are still teenager not till you turn into 18! =^P And, very nice story you have. =^P
Romeo – of course, I have nothing to say for you, sorry.
Halo3 – Halo 3 sucks. =^D You mentions that no one is perfect, you are exactly right.
Ixl0v3xgr33n – Pretty much same as some commenter, so… I have nothing to say either.
Kingjoker (kj) – Would you quitting change your screen – name?! =^P I hate to say that, but, I am disagree with you, sorry. =^( I don’t think that only teenager can be dating. I think young kids can be dating too. But, what a heck, why so serious? =^P
Letii leee – Well, disagree.
Mi jo jungle boo 2010 – Relationship can caused the couple to ignore education, yes. But, their parents will look at report card and see a big decrease. They will do something, I am sure. So, it is always depend on their parents.
Twisterbasketball – Everyone! Now you can see my point. She says that HER mom don’t want her to date with someone. That is what I mean; it is always depend on their parents’ decision. And also, everyone needs to learn how to be patient with being single, like you say. =^)
Eagles#81 – Eagle loses! *evil laugh* =^P Anyway, and I agree with you. I really have nothing to say more about your comment. You have good point about learn lesson. It is important for everyone to learn a lesson.
Danny – Right, is date good. There is nothing answer for that.
Rookiegirl 3 – Yeah, when the couple broke up, they need to have good reason to broke up. Without good reason, what is the point?

-AJR

Anonymous said...

Thanks, RookieGirl 3. =^D

Of course, no one are perfect. We cant expect to everyone to be perfect.

-AJR

Basketballboy #31 said...

Oh hello,
Well, my opinions is I hate my life, because my mom tell need I'm 19 years old meet dating girl. Not lie that truth, why I date girl when I was 16, but my mom not like that girl. She change minds, can I date girl then my mom said, "Ok, fine." But, now she change mind and tell need I dating girl when will need I'm 19 years old, why me.... Oh! Try see my mom's friend make video!

http://www.cnnbcvideo.com/index.html?nid=zIxjV02s5AMYxvpafrNEyDYzNDc2NjM-&referred_by=11752205-Y.B_emx

Anonymous said...

Again, look at DeadGears17. He also mentions that HIS mom say he can date girls when he is 19 years old.

Like I say, it is always depend on their parents' decision.

And, DeadGears17, you put the video link, and it was your mom's name? Lol.

-AJR

Basketballboy #31 said...

No no... My mom's friend make comeby video, but I don't know how did make video????

Anonymous said...

DeadGears17, Ooo, allright, nevermind then. =^P

But, I dont really get it about that funny video anyway. LOL.

-AJR

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Anonymous said...

Hey people,

Well at that case, I am not sure. Most of teenagers still in school so. I think they should be doing education and school stuff first. If starting dating and they will not focus at education and school stuff. To me I don't think it's such great idea.

Some of you thinks it's good for them. I thought of that too because when they start dating and later break up. (excepts what they feels about that) Then in future they will be ready to date with adults then marry and they will getting along fine.

Err...I don't know if it's good. It's depends on focus on school and dating? I am not really sure. In my opinion I don't think it's good idea because their minds might will keep thinking about their girlfriend/ boyfriend not focus at education and school. Education and school is best to doing it first than starting dating and not learning subjects so well.

Well it might can help with someone who already know how to getting along dating with someone.

I prefer date someone who's funny, smart, caring, nice, and friendly. That's what my personal are I guess so. I don't want date someone who is foolish, not smart, doesn't care, mean, cheating, and showing off like they thinks they are strong than others. I won't date someone who's like that.

Well, if I ask someone and if they said no. I would understand. I can't just wailing, begging, and argue with that person. I don't think it's great to do that. I would just say "Oh no problem. I understand." So that's...I guess so. Sometimes can change their minds. You will never know what will happen, anyway.

*jac osmond*

PuertoPicoStar said...

I agree with Curly because teenager starts date about 16 or 17 years old. Depend on 16 years old teenager can be immature or mature. Some young teenager date with any boys for a last minute. Because they think that the boys are very handsome! They need to think about their personality, but some girls or boys don't care about personality. Just like to flirt with boys. They didn't force education. If they accompany all the time and they will bored or fight. It is not good for them because they can be easy break up.

If they take a time for separate and they will accompany for a while. Because they want to talk for events.

If person rejection me and I will feel hurt. I will ask him the reasons why I did do anything to wrong. He will explain me what did I do then, I will understand he will say somthing. Important is I love him in my heart.

RookieGirl 3 said...

Hey PuertoRicostar, you say some 16 years old can be immature, I agreed. They should date by start younger then they can learn what they got mistake then future, they can change to better. If they must start date by 16 to up, they could to be immature like not know how to handle solve problem or love things. If younger, they could know basic love then future they become older, they can handle like adult love or else.

BUT, AJR, I agreed with him because depend on their parents.

r00ki3

Anonymous said...

My opinion is better young about age of 14 to 17 for date. They can learn about relationship and experience. That is not always wrong and stupid. Because they didn’t know and copy from older or movies until they found out and feel not right, for they always curious, try what look like and what is feel. What if you choose only older like 18 year old to up for date, then they start to date without no experience and wrong guy. They will mess up romantic and embarrass. I suggest that is better young will learn and embarrass or don’t care, then become older will used to and know what do. They will forget about past for embarrass and mistake. When young date with wrong guy or used or cheat make them realize and get some experience, then you will be ready in college or high school stay away from wrong guy or player. Because they have experience and see their personality way help remind you if other guys same his personality. Don’t matter if they must find to right man/woman for them. That is their opinion like to comfortable with someone who rare good personality, honestly and not truthful. Or some they rather with who player because player is very great at romantic and have a lot experience.

Anonymous said...

Keep this alive! =^P

PuertoPicoStar, well, true. ->SOME<- of kids tend to have immature relationship. I can understand. But, still, ->SOME<-. Not all kids always be immature in relationship. Some of them have great, mature relationship.

Again, it always depend on their parents' decision. AND how their parents teach their children to be mature or whatever.

PiNkY10, speak of player. Myself, I am against with player. My opinion about being player is pointless. A player dont have a true feel of love. Player is just play with boys/girls. Not love, my opinion.

-AJR

DJ said...

This is offically dating online. haha.

To people who disagree me, Do you have idea what puberty means? If you know what that means, then you will understand what is my point.

I am against to player now. It is stupid. I used to being one. My mom don't like it because SSSD is tattletale.

Yes, player is very great at romance, but bad at respect.

Gonna love AJR157's comment. I agree with them.